Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Mr. & Mrs. Carter on tour

                            Beyoncé and Jay-Z lovers Rejoice!!
     Unless you have been living under a rock on another planet, you've already heard the news.  Beyoncé and Her husband Jay-Z are finally going on tour together.  Yes you've read correctly.  I can't tell you how long I've dreamt about the possibility of this happening.  Now, just I case you don't get what a major deal this is; let me remind you that I'm talking about Queen Bee and Hovah, Mr. And Mrs. Carter if you will.  A movement on their own, and a force to be reckoned with together.

           Certainly this isn't their first collaboration Jay-Z and Beyoncé  first partnered up 12 years ago for "'03 Bonnie & Clyde", and other major hits  and have since been married with a daughter. So it's only right they join forces on tour.  They're calling it the "On the Run Tour"

Here are the tour dates.....

6/25 — Miami, FL @ Sun Life Stadium
6/28 — Cincinnati, OH @ Great American Ball Park
7/01 — Foxborough, MA @ Gillette Stadium
7/05 — Philadelphia, PA @ Citizens Bank Park
7/07 — Baltimore, MD @ M and T Bank Stadium
7/09 — Toronto, ON @ Rogers Centre
7/11 — East Rutherford, NJ @ MetLife Stadium
7/15 — Atlanta, GA @ Georgia Dome
7/18 — Houston, TX @ Minute Maid Park
7/20 — New Orleans, LA @ Mercedes-Benz Superdome
7/22 — Arlington, TX @ AT&T Stadium
7/24 — Chicago, IL @ Soldier Field
7/27 — Winnipeg, MB @ Investors Group Field
7/30 — Seattle, WA @ Safeco Field
8/02 — Pasadena, CA @ Rose Bowl
8/05 — San Francisco, CA @ AT&T Park

If you notice New york city isn't listed and that's because that date is To Be Announced.  But I'm certain this tour has to end in Mine and Jay-Z's home town NYC.

Monday, April 28, 2014

Lupita the beautiful.

                                                The Most Beautifullest Girl.


     Last week People magazine named Lupita Nyong'o the most beautiful person on their "50 most beautiful people" list.  Wow congratulations to her.  I've heard only raves about the magazine's decision, and I've got to say, she deserves it.  I mean look at her, she really is beautiful.





  •       I'm pretty sure People had their reasons to put Lupita at the top of their list.  However I appreciate seeing Lupita on People's most beautiful list because the world is currently in a heated debate about what beauty should look like.  I think it helps not just young girls see different examples of beauty,  but also young adults such as myself who have been almost brainwashed into thinking there's only one kind of beautiful.  A lot can be said about this topic of beauty but for now I'm just happy for Lupita Nyong'o.  Kudos to People's magazine for choosing her.

Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Worst ways to breakup.

They say  "breaking up is hard to do", well…sure no duh!  There's a lot of feelings that comes with a breakup but, some of most important ones are Agony, betrayal, confusion, inferiority, embarrassment and disrespect.  Whether you're getting dumped or doing the dumping, breaking up is never fun. You might have thought your ex telling you “it's over” was brutal. Well I've come up with the worst ways to breakup that will have you thanking you're ex.  It was hard deciding which was worse, but I think you'll agree with these five. Read it and weep.

( Hopefully it hasn't happened to you.)
5. Digital Breakup.
 Via phone,text message,voice mail or e-mail.
A digital breakup is bad because you always feel like the person couldn't face you.  I mean you were in a relationship with this person, someone you probably loved and they choose to breakup with you digitally. It's ill mannered and disrespectful.  A breakup is something that should always be done in person. Of course with the exception of "special circumstances" i.e.. If the person you're breaking up with is a known violent person.  

4. Special Day.
Valentine's day, Birthdays, Anniversaries and Holidays. It almost doesn't matter how it's done but, being broken up with on those "Special days" we all look forward to spending with loved ones has to be incredibly painful. It may even feel like a betrayal due to the mere fact that you were dumped on a "special day".  I mean how heartless can a person be to not let you have that One day?

3. Public Breakup.
Whether it's in front of a group of people at school, the mall or at a party, public breakups are super harsh.  Posting on Twitter, Facebook, or Instagram for the whole world to see takes it to an whole new low. Public breakups are extremely embarrassing, and social media is the worst kind of public.

2. Human Messenger.
As if its not bad enough getting dumped, its even worse having to hear it from someone else. Making your friend,  family member or even your new squeeze do your dirty work of breaking the news is just a cruel and an  obviously cowardly way of breaking up with a person. Talk about "Insult upon injury" ouch!

1. Cut Off.
 Not telling someone that you've broken up with them by just cutting off all tides.
There's nothing worse than NOT KNOWING! Oh my God!  Just imagine thinking you're in a relationship and then suddenly, you don't see them anymore, you don't hear from them, when you call there's no answer, just nothing.  This just goes on for a while.  So you're worried and your mind is going a mile a minute trying to figure things out.  But all the while this person is alive and well and you know this from his/her social media postings.  It's time to know that you've been dumped by way of "cut off" all tides. This may just be the absolute WORST way to breakup.

So next time you're unhappy in your relationship and want to breakup.  Consider the list above. Remember that breakups are inevitable but you can control how it happens.  The idea is to get out without burning too many bridges.